Anonymous asked:
[2/3] That anon said only YOU are saying that SE is good and DE is bad? Well, only THEY are saying that Stelena is romanticizing abuse. The show has never said that Stelena is abusive at all. The writers feel that Stefan’s love is pure, that he will always do the right thing by Elena, etc, etc. (and these sentiments were reiterated as recently as mid S5).

[3/3] People are allowed to disagree. I disagree with the writers’ opinions often. That doesn’t change the reality of the show. Another reality is that Delena IS toxic and co-dependent. That (unlike the idea that Stelena was abusive) was not only made canon in the narrative, but came straight from JP’s mouth. People make this so much harder than it really needs to be.

I’m afraid I only got these two messages, but all of this is perfect thank you.


Anonymous asked:
I was hoping they would give Caroline a real stroyline in s6. I don't care how many guys she dates and how many guys she has sex with. Those things can happen and she can still have a decent storyline but now she will be used as a plotdevice for SE. I ship SE but do they really have to use Caroline like that? Why not develop SE without the drama? No triangle drama does not mean a love stroy is boring! Sorry for ranting in your askbox btw but I'm so frustrated with all the potential they waste!

Feel free to rant here anytime you like :) I know it’s frustrating sometimes. And yeah I agree, I don’t really think the problem is how many guys she has sex with as such, but more that’s all there ever seems to be with her character lately. It’s always about a guy and never anything else. I honestly think it’s out of character to have Caroline pursue Stefan, and for him to pursue her too. I don’t think there would be anything wrong with their relationship, sure they get on and it’s probably less abusive than most relationships on the show, that’s not what I’m saying. But the fact that Caroline has had development and is no longer second choice to anyone anymore, that she was the Stelena cheerleader for so long and that it’s not exactly the time to want to be with Stefan. I mean they’re vampires, maybe wayyyy down the line if Stefan is no longer interested in Elena, sure by all means go for him then. And Stefan? Stefan is still in love with Elena, he knows that and he knows he always probably will be. He’s still hurt from losing her. I understand he may want to move on and forget about her, but being with her best friend is definitely not the right way to go about it. And if this gets serious, if they intend on a relationship or something, it’s all so much worse. I love Caroline and I hate the fact that the writers are willing to ruin her character, in my opinion, just to add drama to the triangle.


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  • Anonymous asked:
    Has it been confirmed that Caroline will have unrequited feelings for Stefan? I don't want this for her! It's like we're back to s1 were caroline is always the second choice to Elena. She deserves the best and as much as I love SC as a friendship we KNOW Stefan will never be truly over Elena and they only want to create more drama and it's so UGH!

    auroracat65:

    saintsteffy:

    I think so, anon. And I completely agree with everything you said. I don’t like Steroline romantically and I don’t think it makes much sense right now, but it’s gonna happen. At least we should see some jealousy from Elena which is probably the only positive I can see right now to be honest. I just hope it doesn’t last too long, I’d much rather be able to enjoy the Steroline friendship.

    Just, suppose that instead of showing her jealousy - like all the times in the past even though she was with Damon, she takes the high road and wants what will make Stefan (and Caroline) happy. This would show Elena’s character growth. But of course Stefan will know that it would be unfair to Caroline and in this way, it is what brings Stelena closer together.

    Ooh interesting! I do think Elena will be jealous but won’t be so open about it. Like the audience will see it and everything but she’ll want them to be happy. But then again the spoiler said it will cause a rift between her friendship with Caroline so maybe not? But that’s the way I pictured it anyway. Elena being accepting rather than getting involved.


  • Why can’t Caroline have a storyline that doesn’t involve a guy? Seriously, she’s a great character with lots of potential and has had way too many love interests this season alone.


  • Anonymous asked:
    Has it been confirmed that Caroline will have unrequited feelings for Stefan? I don't want this for her! It's like we're back to s1 were caroline is always the second choice to Elena. She deserves the best and as much as I love SC as a friendship we KNOW Stefan will never be truly over Elena and they only want to create more drama and it's so UGH!

    I think so, anon. And I completely agree with everything you said. I don’t like Steroline romantically and I don’t think it makes much sense right now, but it’s gonna happen. At least we should see some jealousy from Elena which is probably the only positive I can see right now to be honest. I just hope it doesn’t last too long, I’d much rather be able to enjoy the Steroline friendship.


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  • As the Travelers move forward with their plans, Stefan and Elena will develop an “us-against-the-world” mentality, executive producer Caroline Dries teases.” -(x)


  • tomsavery:

stefanslvtore:

…. does this mean it’s actually going to happen please no

    tomsavery:

    stefanslvtore:

    …. does this mean it’s actually going to happen please no

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  • stefanslvtore:

    they’re literally about to take away all of caroline’s development by making her pine over stefan next season. she deserves better than to just be someone’s second choice


  • mylovewithdamon:

    elena gilbert ► one outfit per episode
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  • spawnofklaus:

    Caroline will develop unrequited feelings for Stefan.

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    It will cause rifts in her friendship with ONE person.

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    Caroline will set her sights on Stefan and go after him.

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    This will be a theme in S6

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    Caroline and Stefan romantically

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  • askboo replied to your post “The problem is that you’re describing classic good vs. evil trope and that’s not actually what TVD is doing. It’s deconstructing stereotypical tropes. That’s why it’s not true that Stefan is the ‘Hero’ nor Damon the ‘Villain’ and neither brother/relationship is good or bad. It’s all shades of grey and varying POV’s for ALL the characters now. Unfortunately, some people are still clinging to what was initially portrayed in the first episodes of the series, not understanding that wasn’t reality.”

    They’re also unconvincing re: “damon isn’t bad”. He’s like all abusers, nice only when it suits him, nice when he wants to be manipulative.

    Yep, I totally agree.

    browniestick replied to your post “argh why is that anon annoying you? i’m getting frustrated on your behalf. you’re really good for not getting angry. i could never be that patience. And to the anon, leave this wonderful person alone. She’s entitled to her opinions, just as you are entitled to yours. Coming to her ask box and harassing her isn’t going to change anybody’s mind about their preferred ship, so you’re wasting your time.”

    I think that anon has been attempting to troll pretty much everyone in the anti damon tag.. I also have a theory that they might actually be Julie Plec.

    lmfao Julie Plec. Yeah, it’s funny really.


  • Anonymous asked:
    argh why is that anon annoying you? i'm getting frustrated on your behalf. you're really good for not getting angry. i could never be that patience. And to the anon, leave this wonderful person alone. She's entitled to her opinions, just as you are entitled to yours. Coming to her ask box and harassing her isn't going to change anybody's mind about their preferred ship, so you're wasting your time.

    Thank you. :)


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